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Friday, January 3, 2014
How we can control attitudes?
Several people didn't know that the people around them has a highest look on
them, especial if we are in the highest rank, it has a impact on their life if
they find an unpleasant attitude from us, sometimes the people around us is our
key to achieve our goal in life, if we do wrong it will spread through their
mouth and to their social media communities that our attitude is not good, so,
it will affect in our life, in our goal. I remember the quote of late pres, Marcos
of Phil, he say when I do right no one to remember me, when I do wrong people
remember me.
The wrong we did stay in the mind of the people, so, we must guard our attitude
for the people didn't know us. I been encounter a lot of people who is nagger, boastful
and has a bad attitude even they do right the bad thing they do stay in my mind
so I keep away from them. I did not keep anger but the damage they done become
a brindle between us.
We must control our attitude; our attitude has a lot to do with our success and reaching our goals.
Show a good attitude even they bullied you, keep calm show them that you’re
not affected, reason out in nice way, we should look the positive side of their
action not a negative side. This is what I do when someone bully me because of
my faith. I look for it as a blessing, even Jesus suffer bullying, so do I.
Think positive, a positive persistent attitude about our goals will help us
keep going when a bump in the road sets us back. It will keep us from giving
up. A positive outlook to the people around us,
Make a list of the benefits we’ll receive from achieving the goal, it will
keep us motivated and excited in our goal. Keep this list in front of us to
keep us going, sometime we loss direction that causes us to rankle, and
implicate the people around us, Goals give us a sense of direction.Set big goals, little goals, short-term and long-range goals. Achieving
every stage of goals boosts our self esteem and helps us feel more control over
our environment. Working toward our goal give us more contented with life and
are less stressed.
"Respect yourself enough to walk away from anything that no longer
serves you, grows you, or make you happy"Develop new habits to replace some not so effective ones in order to reach
our goals. Habits are learned, anything that is learned can be unlearned, replace
the ineffective habit. With effective attitude, identify the habit we want to
change and analyze it. Practice it persistently until it is firmly in
place.
Now, we have a new habit and positive attitude and know how to develop
healthier habits, start looking for person higher than us, be humble, face
people in a nice mood, it’s good to see people smiling at you even they didn’t
know you. A simple smile brightens our day.
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