How to handle a person who lying and didn't do her Promise?

I thought lying is a sin, but why this woman didn’t know this? she use to lie every day, didn’t she know that lying is a sin? 

There is a story in the bible, a couple name Ananias and Sapphira, they lied about their money to the apostle, all of the sudden God punish them to dead, (Act.5:1-11)(http://emmanfbbible.blogspot.com/2013/07/lying.html)

What I’m saying is, if this woman I'm talking about live in the days of the Apostles of Jesus, maybe she dead already.

Well, this woman I'm talking about is our company secretary, she is the one who processes our reimbursements, but she didn’t do her job instead she always telling us that, she will give it to us with in the day, of course, we will expect it, but the night has passed and the morning come, there is no picture of money from her, when you asked her why she didn’t give it, her reason is, she forgot it, almost every day, this is her reason, a week, before she gave it. everyday you have to follow up your reimbursement to her until she gave the money.

Every day you expecting something but it didn’t come true because of the liar person, so, stressful.

I can report the matter to the Big Boss, but if I do this, we will just build a gap between us and our secretary, it's not good in one group. to avoid this problem, here is what I do.

• I keep being patient, Instead of stressing myself because of the liar, I cool down, thinking that I have nothing to do but to keep wait until she gave it.

• I Keep on following it up to her by calling on the phone and texting, almost every day until she gave it.

• I humbled myself, I didn’t fight back on what she doing to me, because I thought, in this way I will touch her heart and gave it to me.

• I make a record of the thing I gave her, like, a receipt of my refund, I photocopy it and keep the xerox before I give her the original copy, so, if the original loss or she denied this, I have my own record to show. Remember, she is a liar. She can deny everything.

• I Pray and believe that I can have it, we cannot force people to do what we want but God can force them to do what we ask, as you do your part in Praying, God will do too.  

If you suffered like me from the people like her, I think you can do the same as I do, as being patient, Patient means content to wait if necessary, not losing one's temper while waiting, a long minded. Let it to God, as a Christian we have God who punish people who do wrong to us.

It’s my 1st year in Blogging.

Oct 13, is my anniversary, it’s my 1st year in blogging, I start blogging last Oct. 13, 2012.
 

Back in the past day, I was reading an article about the Church of Christ wrote by a blogger, when I thought, why I didn‘t make my own blog?

At first, I just want to write a blog about my experience and about my faith, I just want to keep a record about it, I have no idea what really a blog, some say, that you can earn money from it, but that‘s not my plan, like I say, just to keep record, later on, I thought, how could I improve in blogging? So, I can write, the right form of blogging, because this is online and everybody can read it, I must know what is really a blog, what to blog and what is not, the do‘s and don’ts in blogging and the legal side. I do research, and reading, in the internet, I bought book about writing and blogging and this really help me a lot, I can say, I’m not newbie in blogging anymore, but I want to learn more maybe today, it’s just for the record making blogging, but someday its money making blogging.

I have almost a hundred blog, a niche blogs that covers a certain topic of blog, such as, food blog a recipes, travel blog and more, still, about my experience and faith is there, one thing I didn’t yet do is the video blogs. Later, I will imitate guiyome.

I can’t imagine how I do all my blogs, where I get my entire topic. way back in my high school day, I hate English subject, this is the reason why I’m poor in grammar, I‘m not a wide thinker, I don’t want to torture my mind on thinking something like, words, grammar, sentences, but maybe this happen because of my passion in blogging, right! In blogging you must have a passion, and interest, that’s one thing I learned, even you are not good in writing and grammar; you can make a blog because of passion and interest. If you want to do something you have to find the way to make it perfect.

Like I always say blogging is awesome, blogging make your mind active, why? when you start writing a blog, the word start to enter in your mind about the topic, it comes from your fast experience, from people you talked, from place you went , and from books you have read, all of this will return to your mind when you start to write.

I want to write more blog, as of now, it not yet come to my mind to use this for earning, it’s too early and I need more knowledge and experience.

Thanks to all who gave time to read my blog, and to my Google circle, you are valuable to me.

 

Happy 1st year blogging anniversary to me.

How we can fight the Insomnia?

I was lying in the bed, I was tired after a whole day work, I’m supposed to be asleep already because of tiredness, but what happen to me, I can’t sleep, I closed my eye but my mind are still awake, I don’t want to think this is insomnia but it is, insomnia. 

Insomnia simply means sleeplessness.

Insomnia refers to a person who has difficulty falling sleep or staying asleep, more accurately describe as DIMS or disorders of initiating and maintaining sleep.

There are 3 basic type of insomnia,

• Transient Insomnia, That is last for a few nights and is associated with some type of Physical and Emotional Stress.

• Short-term insomnia, which may last several days or a week. And

• Chronic insomnia, which may go on for years.

Insomnia is considered serious when it affect already in daytime behavior and performance, thus, you need to seek professional help.

What is the cause of insomnia? it’s not symptom, not disease. It is usually cause by this factors. Moreover, overcoming this insomnia depend on how we recognize this factors.

Physical Predisposition and Psychological Predisposition

If you are physically predisposed to insomnia you have a hyperactive arousal system, faster heart beat and higher body temperature.

Psychological predisposed is more likely people who are high-strung and who react more negatively to disappointment and problem.

Use of drugs and alcohol

Drug more harm than good, don’t you know that sleeping pills and alcohol can actually disrupt sleep by inducing shorter more disturbed sleeping pattern, it often lead to addicted behavior because the sufferer takes more drug and alcohol thinking it will relieved their insomnia. Why do not you drink a cup of milk instead of alcohol or eat a high carbohydrate food like cereal or cracker before bedtime, of course, avoids sugar and caffeine.

Disturbing environments, Bad habits, and Negative conditioning.

Your environment and lifestyles, noise, light, heat, and cold can affect your ability to sleep, exercising too close to bedtime can keep you up, and relaxing too much during the day and frequent napping, even sleeping late on a weekend day can cause insomnia. Avoid this.

Train yourself to establish good habit having a consistent bedtime and raising at the same time every morning. Changing your sleep environment can be as easy.

Our needs for sleep vary according to age, health, and stress.

Here I suggest a little help to improve our sleep.

• Exercise regularly but not within three hours of bedtime.

• Give your mind an hour or so to wind down before bedtime, listening to soft music is a better. 

• Create a bedroom environment conductive to sleep, find the ways to eliminate intrusive noise and keep out light. 

• Hide your bedroom clock once you have set the alarm. It is hard to relax when you awake at 4 am and know your day starts in just a few hours. 

• If you cannot sleep don’t toss and turn, if you are awake for more than 15 minutes, turn on the light and do something else.

• A walk after dinner can work some of the tension of your muscles and light snack before bed can cause drowsiness by directing more blood flow to the stomach away from the brain.

Our condition is good if we sleep properly, if you suffered from more than an occasional bad night, you have to seek professional help.

having problem with insomnia is really hard especially if your body need a rest but your eyes and mind didn’t allow it, there are some factor that we must recognize to be able to cope this insomnia.

Software Freedome Day.

From ACTIV

I won a pillow from the raffle of software freedom day event conducted by ACTIV at New Era CEM last September 21, 2013. but this is not a matter. 

 

After the event I downloaded the application about photo editing, thank to the software freedom day event, although, I did not stay there for a whole day because I was just get a little hour from my job to go there, at least I still learn something. 

 

I can use this tools in photography, in photo editing there also a topic I learn that I can apply in my job, I can use this for getting information. 

 

I was just regretful I miss the other topic, maybe next event I get it all,  according to Mr. Tecrias the president of ACTIV it was held every 3rd Saturday of September. 

 

Thanks again to software freedom day event for the knowledge you have share with us.

What is HYPERACTIVITY

Our friends visit us in our home, they brought their child, a boy about 4 year old, I notice he is disorder, he want to get whatever the things he saw in our room, he run, and run, climb in the window grill go down and run again, when his mother shouted at him telling him to stop, he stop but his face and eye look like angry and after a while he begun again, there is other kids but he doesn’t want to play with them. According to her mother it is normal even in their house he has the same attitude, so, hyper and disorder.

 

Hyperactivity is a word used to describe a condition in children whose behavior is marked by more than normal physical activity, some say it is a common behavioral problem of children but for parents and other people it is normal for a growing up children like my friend.

 

Hyperactivity is encompasses such characteristic as Lack of attention, Being easily destructed. Lack of coordination. Impulsive action and over physical energy, sound like not normal for a kids.

 

Most hyperactive children have a difficult in staying with one task, if the child cannot finish a task without interruption or disruptive behavior in such a time period, he should be observed because, generally if a child can complete his task, he is not hyperactive.

 

In dictionary hyperactivity is the state or condition of being excessively or pathologically active especially: attention deficit disorder.

 

But the other say, there is no exact cause of hyperactivity not a mental or physical retardation, but quite the contrary a hyperactive child are highly intelligent and imaginative most like the problem in this case is  the freedom restricting structure of space and time which society build around the developing child.

 

 

What is the best remedy for hyperactive kids?

 

Creating a comfortable and nonthreatening environment is the best remedy for hyperactive child to develop physically and mentally at his own pace. 

 

 

Best tool for them are,

 

* Attention, because of our busiest time we forgot to give it to our child, we let them to their ya-ya whose cannot give what we parents can give, we should attend to them even in our busiest time, just a little time but loveliest moment for them.

 

* Concerned, concern to what our child doing, like in school, in his work, maybe our child want to show for us but seems look like we are not concern, so, they hesitate to show it to us. let us pay attention to what they are trying to show to us, they just want to share us their happiness in their work. because of lock of attentions and concern they do something that attract our attention. This is the best tools for them Attention and Concerned.