Sunday, March 16, 2014

One sided Leader, how to treat them?




How would you treat a leader who let say one sided, he didn’t consider the feeling of his follower or member, but the only member who pleasing in his sight, maybe because this member is doing all his desire, or close to his heart. I have been encountering this kind of leader. This matter is not happening in the group only, also in all occasion like event between the participant and organizer. In a company between supervisor and regular employee. its justifiable that sometimes the leader become hot temper because of their big responsibility as a leader, sometime they loss composure, its forgivable but the others, its their attitude, in all aspect, they are really self-centered, if they didn’t like the person, even this person has done nothing with them, they put this person in suffering in their hand. This kind of leader has no right to become one of. But because of their ability that the organization or the company need, they were hired. In the part of regular employee or a follower this leader are the problem and threat to their position. This kind of situation is really a problem and stressful, if you know that you leader always looking for you fault, you can’t focus on your job.


How can we treat or coop this intrigable situation. Here is a tips base on my experience.

Be friend your leader, how we can do this if he doesn’t want us, do something that please him, help him to fix his things in the office.
 

If you can’t be friend with your leader because he really doesn’t want you, let him but don’t do what he is doing, it in the bible that you should follow your master whether he is good or bad, what he do to you he will pay it to God.
 

Do your job rightfully so he can’t saw something that he can pin you down.
 

Don’t mind him whatever he do to you, as long as you’re doing your duty.
 

Be courteous to your boss even he doing bad to you, think that you’re working for God not for men and everything will be alright because God is on your side, he is the one who keep you in your job. 

Even they are cruel we should follow them because they are our leader, God put them to be over us, and they are accountable to God.

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