Bullying: How can we prevent it, how can we protect our kids?

In dictionary Bullying is an act of intimidating a weaker person to do something especially such repeated coercion. It also an aggressive behaviour that is intentional it can be done by any person even your family by words, or by our action,, sometime our action affect to others, bullying is not just for a kids in school who bullied by classmate. Bullying also means is persistent act intended to make life unpleasant for another person. If you act become unpleasant to another that's bullying,

Bullying consist of abuse or repeated act.  Emotional, Verbal, by hurting someone with insult, and Physical, by hitting or betting.  It happened in kindergarten to high school, also to the person of child who is new or transferee in the school. Include those who have a disability or children who are not adept at making friends and have little social support. Obesity is also a significant risk factor for being a victim of bullies.

I‘m too, is a victim of bullying when I was in Grade School and it give a big impact in myself, until now it’s so fresh in my mind. But after that it make me strong, I've learned to stand alone, I’ve  learned not to depend to other, even today I experience bullying but I learned to respond.

What is the effect of bullying?

Negativity, perform poorly academically, depression, personal life disorder, and many other risk factor that sometimes can lead to suicide, but let’s  not allow this to happen.

Bullying is a common part of childhood. But parents can help kids cope with it and lessen its lasting impact. How can we teach our child to fight it?

• Teach them not to speak to a stranger
• Tell to your child what is bullying is, hitting or pushing another child is wrong and other form of bullying that can hurt other child.
• Tell them that there are a people who bullied others, in this way they will aware of it.
• Tell her what to do in case she experiences or witnesses bullying,to alert a teacher right away if he sees bullying behaviour.
• Teach your child how to handle resolves situation that arise in his life when he encounter bullies.
• Teach your child to have a high self esteem, self confidence and self worth.
• Teach them to be strong against bullying, to face it and stand, tell them their right not to be bullied.
• Teach our child to respond but not to fight fist for fist to bullying. Someone bullied other because they saw the person was weak, but if they saw the person is strong they will not bully it.
• Know about their friends and the details about their interactions with classmates and peers, in this way you can identify easily who bullying them.
• Establish good communication with your child so that they will knows that you are someone they can go to when they has a problem.

For the kids or person who might be a victim of bullying.

• Avoid them in school and other social situations. If they go the same way you do, try a different way, its good than to confront them.
• Don’t show the bullies that you feel hurt if they do something that makes you uncomfortable; or hurt you, just walk off, they gain satisfaction from making others feel hurt.
• Report them to the authority, your teacher or to your parents, talk to someone like your friend, don’t worry about revenge that the bully may take if you report them, they will hurt you anyway and appeasing them doesn't solve your problem.

Bullying can happen to anyone, to the kids and to the adults, it can happen anytime, anywhere.

http://childparenting.about.com/od/schoollearning/a/prevent_stop_bullying.htm

http://en.wikipedia/wiki/bullying