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Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun goes down upon your wrath: (Eph 6:26)
According to the bible be ye angry, but don’t sin, its mean to be angry is not a sin, when I’m young, my parents taught us that to be angry is a sin.
We can‘t be human if we did not angry, we are human, it‘s a feeling and it‘s include anger. It can be good or bad, but simply feeling angry is not wrong, but do not sin according to the bible.
How can we not sin?
If you got mad, control you anger to let it not goes to sin, we should be aware of our feeling, we should watch our anger.
Anger lead to sin, when we allow it, it will inflict pain to other.
Sometimes anger goes so far underground that cause physical or emotional illness, it prevent a person to express other feeling or emotion, to love and to care, anger control him.
Our Lord Jesus got angry too, but His anger serves a useful purpose when it leads to life giving action, He use it against wrong, be angry but not sin.
We can use this anger to make a positive differences, in your community and in the world, like the Lord Jesus, anger can be useful, it can be of great value and it‘s all depend on what you do.
Here some suggestion on how, our anger becomes useful.
- Acknowledge your anger, don‘t pretend, do not hide your anger if you hold it, sooner or later it will blow and become worst, like me, one time my friend bully me in front of our other friend, because he is my friend and I don’t want trouble I hold my anger by clinching my fist, but he continued in bullying me, I can’t control it anymore so, all of the sudden my fist landed in his face, and didn’t talk to him anymore until now. If you are angry let it come out and be gone, say that you are angry with him, and settle it immediately. As a bible say, let not the sun go down upon your wrath
- Uncover the cause of your anger, what trigger your feeling? Is your wife nagging you? Is your son failing his study?
- Know what cause your anger; ask yourself, what have you done that make you angry? What you’re angry with? Dig it up what made you angry. In this way when the sign comes and you know that this thing can make you angry, you know already what to do.
- Explore how you feel about your anger, take a honest look of how you feel about becoming anger, afraid of what will cause, if you get angry, feeling embarrassed when you are angry, or have guilty feeling to yourself, find what you feel when you’re angry. By knowing it you can control your anger.
- Confide in someone you trust, find someone who can help you to deal with your anger, your wife, a friend or your minister in the church. It’s better to seek help by other, than to keep it in yourself.
- Do something productive with your anger, pray to God to let your anger gone, speaking to a person who made you angry, make a first move to say Sorry, apologize. Does something that your anger uses in productive way, like helping in your community, join in organization, and go to counseling. By doing this you will be busy and forget you anger.
Anger can provide us energy to change; you know when I am feeling angry I’m more active to write a blog. Other people keep eating when they are angry.
You know angry bird? He use his anger to break the building, even he use his child it useful no need for the bomb to break the building and also we become happy when we play it.
How about you, when you are angry, are your anger useful, try this simple suggestion and see what the outcome to you is.
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